Whats the phrase?... something like never cross a woman scorned?! well in today's society that really isn't an understatment! With advanced technology like the Internet... capitalists have been keen to cut into the cake and take revenge to the next level.... ONLINE! There are numerous websites you can now log on to and leave a profile of an ex boyfriend that future prospective girlfriends are free to log on to and read.
On one level, it's a good concept... kind of like you can find out the hard details before you fall to deep. Yet at the same time what ever happened to that old saying
"Don't judge a book by its cover..."
In recent days, acclaimed author, Peter Carey has been subject to negative scathing remarks from his ex-wife on a dating arning website. See the profile Carey's ex-wife posted. Carey has been described as a psycho and his estranged wife has described at length how
"He planted stories that I was crazy, money hungry, ruthless and unfaithful...He planted stories that I was crazy, money hungry, ruthless and unfaithful
This story was recently covered on australian network television show, A Current Affair.
Above: Screenshot of dontdatehimgirl.com
Sites like Don't date him, Girl. com and Dating Psychos are becoming more and more common on the Internet. But what kind of affect does it have on the person you are posting on?!
Let us look at this objectively here people?! Ok numero uno...
At one point, you were in love or infatuated with the person that you are now insulting.
Secondly, they trusted you, with their inner most fears and habits... they allowed you into their world and believed in you. And then just because the relationship didn't work out, you added them on a insulting and disrespectful international forum?!
GET A FREAKING LIFE...
The question you should be asking yourselves is how do i get on with my life?! Not wallowing in self pity and heart break. Yeah.. it hurts but there's no use crying over spilt milk (damn, another saying... lol i need to stop). The trick is to get back out there and live life. That's just my two cents... :)
8 comments:
It's funny to read about until it happens to you i suppose.
It sux cus when you brake up with some one your heart is empty and you automatically want to take revenge. And sites like those ones are kind of helping you to make a fool of yourselves cus how many times do you regret doing some thing like the second after you've already done it.
I think the phrase is hell has no fury like a women scorned. As in hell has nothing on a women thats pissed off at you.
Yes but I think women really are attracted to bastards , at least to bad boys so I might do a review for myself on dont date him and see what happens!!!
If I was in the market anyway.
yah i agree that women are more attracted to the bad boys... but i think it wud be so off putting to find out that my new guy had a profile on one of those sites.
Are there sites like these for men? Shows women are being a little too emotional !!! Deal with it, you got dumped. Move on.
Let us consider CHEATERS. I think that these comments and the blog post are considering bad behavior---not outright lies/deception and cheating. If a man purports to be in a committed relationship, but is sleeping with others, shouldn't future potential victims be warned? Or is cheating acceptable and/or a minor infraction? One of the comments indicate that a woman would just post hateful things about a man after being dumped by him. I'm sure that does happen.
Most of the posts I've read on DontDateHimGirl.com are very detailed in the type of DECEPTION a man lead a girl into, and are specific to two-timers. In those instances, the girl probably left the guy (God I hope), and therefore was not 'scorned' but had been mislead/duped.
What about abusive men? Are we supposed to keep that info to ourselves? Are we not supposed to care about other women who could be potential victims? WARN people PLEASE of abuse or infidelity. The rest? That really should be private. We are all difficult to live with sometimes.
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